Giving BACK

No surprise I am a compassionate and empathetic person. At least I *hope* it’s no surprise! I also value other people’s time, opinion, experience, and feelings. And with that I want to tell you what I try to do every week. I give back to people that have given me something that makes me happy – or changes my life for the better – but I try to show that thanks in a way they need most.  Money.  Sometimes I can’t do it every week, but I at least try every week.  Sometimes all I have to give is my time, a blog comment, re-Tweet, or a honest to God heartfelt complement or word of thanks.  That I *can* do every day.

As strange as it sounds, I’m going on a Rick Springfield cruise this November.  I’ve been to 10 concerts of his so far.  Not only is the cruise a unapologetic gift to myself (from myself), but it does in a way reward and thank RS for /cough/ 30+ years of his music to me, he gets money from it.  Not the most direct way to show my appreciation, but counting myself in a tiny percentage of rabid RS fans that would pony up the money and float around on the ocean for 4 days DOES say thanks better than any other way I could think of.

Secondly, I love love love Matthew Ebel, have for years, and finally realized that maybe I should show a ‘starving musician’ exactly what his music means to me – with money.  So I bought a one year VIP subscription to his fan club and music.  I already purchased every CD and track he’s released, but this was my above and beyond thank you for years of robots, ninjas, crayons, and piano ballads he’s made.  I tell the world about him every chance.  I am confident I have turned more than a few people into Ebel fans as well.

Drew Olanoff at Blame Drew’s Cancer is a story that kind of hit me in a weird way.  I’ve met Drew at  Podcamp Philly, and although I’m certain he doesn’t remember me, his personal story of cancer hits home closer than a lot of people may ever know.  I remember very vividly when that Tweet came across when he brought the fact he had cancer public.  The fear it struck in me to how it must feel to say it out loud, how it makes it real somehow hit me right in the gut.  I bought a tee shirt, I donated to Livestrong.  I gave money, but I’m not sure I made a difference.  I sure as hell hope *he* does.  Sometimes money alone doesn’t make it better.

Tonight I gave a few Starbuck coffee’s worth of money to my favorite author J.C. Hutchins via Podiobooks.  I will purchase every book he ever writes.  I have downloaded every audio novel he’s ever spoken.  I wanted to thank him more, so I gave him some money.  I am lucky enough to get to chat with him via Twitter every now and again, and would empty my pockets for him if I could just so he could sit home every day and WRITE.  I absolutely love his work.  I’m only sorry and sort of ashamed I hadn’t clicked that donate button years ago.

Am I so flush with cash I can click away at any PayPal Donate button I see?  No.  Am I more passionate about things I enjoy and love more than other people?  Maybe.  Do I feel that I need to show my appreciation for things I value in a way that *they* place value on? YES.

What do you value and love so much you would open your wallet & say “thanks”?

[tags]blamedrewscancer, jc hutchins, matthew ebel, podcamp, rick springfield[/tags]

Podcamp Boston 4

There is something about podcamp & being with people that ‘get it’ (or want to) that makes my soul happy #pcb4

This past weekend I went to my first Podcamp Boston.  It was *my* fourth Podcamp, having to to NYC #1, Philly #1 & #2 before. I’ve been to many other conferences for technology, podcasting, blogging, and all around geekiness – but Podcamp always feels like home regardless of the city.  It really is hard to sum up in writing the feeling I get from attending.  Towards the end of the weekend I had just got done having an amazing ‘hallway conversation’ with someone and when I walked away, was seriously overcome with emotion, so I Twittered the quote that opens this story.

Conferences like these are actually very hard for me.  It’s not just about the information I get out of the sessions, it’s about the people and the community encircling it.  There is an emotional side – the HUMAN side – to Podcamps that charges me up.  About three days before I go I get nervous that no one remembers me, that friends I’ve made online will pass me over, or that I won’t make a difference to someone. My worries never come to be, because as soon as I walk in the hotel (well after midnight), an old friend comes over, give me a hug, and somehow I know I’m fine.  But I still worry.Thank you Podcampers!

The first day of the conference I walked into the main presentation room and immediately go to longtime friends like Chel and Whitney, but take longer to track down and talk to other people (like Doug, Phil, Bryan, & Laura to name a few!), and take the time to make new friends like Ron (whom I totally adore).  Yet still there are other people – like Matthew Ebel – that I would consider it a sin if everyone in the room didn’t hear me preach about.  As the weekend progresses I start up conversations with ease with a woman that has awesome purple eyeglass frames or someone that liked comments I made during a talk and wind up having amazing conversations.  I see people that I’ve met in person a few times before and geek-crush on admire that I’m sure won’t remember me (but they say hello anyway, even though I’m sure they DON’T remember my name).  I attend sessions on topics I know and understand like the back of my hand, and yet hear an amazing story and a million ideas of my own pour into my head.  People I don’t know seek me out, wanting to meet me and have a conversation.  My soul feels whole at Podcamp.

Yes, there are a lot of amazing sessions at Podcamp.  Yes, there are some that suck.  Yes there are some that happen that no one realized would happen that have strong and amazing consequences.  Three years ago I did a session at Podcamp NYC on “Women in Podcasting” (I *really* need to dig up those slides!) but decided to pass by the opportunity to speak in Boston, mainly because it was a 5 hour each way drive for my husband and I and I wanted to spend my time learning and socializing.  Podcamp Philly #3 is October 3-4, 2009 and I WILL be speaking there (check the site for the topic).  I am volunteering again there and hope to make even MORE friends if it’s even possible.

The weekend goes by too quickly, my time in person with them too short and over too fast.  Not enough pictures were taken by me, or with me and friends.  Not enough sessions attended, not enough hugs given.  Hello and goodbye happen too close together.  A weekend isn’t enough, but it has to be, because I am lucky enough to be able to share my day and my life with these people, every day, online.  People that aren’t as ‘wired’ as I am may not understand, but my friends do.

See you all at the next Podcamp!  Thanks for the friendships – every single one of you shapes my life more than you could possibly know.

[tags]Podcamp, Podcamp Boston, pcb4, #pcb4[/tags]

Fangirls & Bucket Lists

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my bucket list, and how I’m now 38 /falls off chair/ and how I am to the point in my life where I can start putting check marks next to things I’ve always wanted to do, or people I’ve always wanted to meet.  I have the usual stuff like ‘go to Europe’ on the list, but for me it’s more of connecting and meeting people as well as going to exotic places. I don’t get tongue tied if I meet a celebrity, I don’t scream and carry on at concerts, and I’m not a crazy groupie.  With exception. Quite a few of them.  Here are some of my more memorable moments… [Read more...]

PodCamp NYC info….as if you cared….

ME TOO.

I will be at PodCamp NYC this weekend. I will have my cell phone, if you know it, use it. I will have my laptop, but not sure how good the WiFi is (I stayed at the New Yorker Hotel last week when we attended Virtual Worlds, but didn’t bring my 25 pound gear bag).

I will most likely be sporting my trademark purple streak in my hair, it’s been gone for about 2 weeks after YEARS of wearing it (I had to cover some gray hair). If all goes well, we will be in NYC from Friday late afternoon to early Sunday morning.

[tags]PodCampNYC, PodCamp[/tags]

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